Strangers in Common by Wayne Martin Mellinger, Ph.D.
Strangers in Common A Critical Interactionist Sociology of Stranger Relations Wayne Martin Mellinger, Ph.D. 25 September 2026 Introduction Most of the people any of us encounter in a day are strangers. We pass them on sidewalks, stand beside them in elevators, wait behind them in line, sit next to them on buses. Almost none of these encounters becomes an event. That uneventfulness is an achievement. Strangers must see one another without staring, share space without claiming it, and—on the rare occasions when talk begins—find something to say to someone about whom they know almost nothing. The order that makes a world of strangers livable is produced moment by moment, by the people who inhabit it. That order is also unequal. Some people move through public space as unremarkable members of the crowd. Others are stared at, commented on, approached without invitation, told to move along, or looked through as if they were not there. Women walking alone learn that their pr...